I know what a b***hin lover ought to be

The story:

When this song came out I lived in southern california where everyone says b***hin as another way to say excellent, so I really thought he was being hip and saying he was an excellent lover. so when we heard this song a few years later and I am living in new york I sing out my mis heard lyric and the whole room is laughing, I insisted that was the word, someone got the lyrics and showed me ... I laughed so hard I cryed